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Dear Friends-

It’s that time of year when we all want a little more romance and fun from our intimate relationship.  As is my usual way, I want to recommend a few things you can try to surprise your DH (darling husband).  A somewhat graphic post so don’t read on if that will offend you, please!

1)  My first suggestion can be fun for all body types, but especially gals that have put on a little weight, and may be uncomfortable trying new things, might enjoy this.  Have the Pre’ ready and the Pre~Seed loaded if you are trying to conceive (TTC).  You can also use the left over Pre~Seed in the tube –shake it all out– to help with this.  If you are NOT trying to conceive you can have a glass of water by the bed as well.  Begin “messing” around once DH has an erection, sit against the wall or bed headboard with pillows behind you. Then have DH kneel in front of you.  Apply LOTS of product to him and begin using your hands to stroke him.  You will want to use your thumb firmly along the outside ridge of his penis, and use a good bit of pressure, with the rest of your hand wrapped around him.  You can use a mix of long slower strokes, as well as shorter strokes where you mostly just flick your thumb over his glans (the tip).  During this DH can have access to play with your breasts, and if you are well endowed, he can press your breasts together, with both his hands, so that your hand is wrapped around his penis stroking him below your breasts, while his tip is thrusting up between your breasts.  NO matter what size you are, DH will enjoy the view of your face, your hand stroking him and your breasts.  If you are not TTC, DH can finish here.  If you are, be sure and switch things up in time!   Also, if you are NOT trying to conceive, and the Pre’ starts to dry just dip your fingers in the water glass, and add the water drops to you or him.  This will reactivate the product making it slippery again.  Don’t do that if you are TTC, b/c water is toxic to sperm.    

 

2) For a little longer romantic interlude, have DH start on his stomach, candles, music etc… plus a nice massage oil. Avoid any massage oils with propylene glycol, or glycerol.  They will get sticky!  Natural food stores have some nice ones with grape, rice, jojoba or sesame oil. I like the one Pier 1 sells too.  If you are TTC be careful not to get the oil around private parts, as some oils can disrupt sperm function.  You will need to have a soft pillow ready, and some hand wipes if you are TTC.  Either way, also have some Pre’ ready and get the Pre~Seed loaded! 

 

Give DH a nice back rub, then when you are ready, wipe the oil from you hands with the wipes. Ask DH to elevate his hips slightly by placing the pillow underneath his pelvis.  He stays face down. Then gently access his “package” and maneuver it so that it is pulled back and is lying on the bed between his legs, with his penis pointing down towards his feet.  This step will NOT work if he is already erect, but he CAN develop a nice erection in this position, with some different sensations.  Apply Pre’ or left over Pre~Seed to his shaft, and other areas you would like to slip and slide around.  You can wrap your hand around his shaft to stroke him in this position, or you can just use your fingers to trace up and down his shaft, and all around his back side!  If you aren’t TTC, you can use your tongue to access these same areas.  This is a unique position and will give him different sensations whether you choose to finish him this way, or switch up to take care of you!

 

Happy Lover’s Day!

 

Dr. E